Tim & Jules: Aberdeen update

Tuesday, March 05, 2013

Aberdeen Update ~ March 2013

It's hard to believe that we have been living abroad for a YEAR AND A HALF now! Time has just flown by. I can honestly say that we are loving our life here in Aberdeen. God has been so gracious to provide for our needs, not only physically, but spiritually and relationally as well!

Hiking at Crathes Castle nearby hour house

Love my little ladies!

I have several groups of community that I draw strength and encouragement from. First, I am part of a lovely group of ladies that I have come to know and love well through the University of Aberdeen. We do playgroups, bible studies, baby showers, Thanksgiving, Easter Egg hunts etc. together. It's so nice!

As well, we have a solid church family in Trinity Church. I am teaching Sunday School every other week and Tim has been helping to set up for the morning service as well as preaching from time to time. The girls have little Scottish and English friends and enjoy their Sunday School classes! We are so thankful for this local body of Christ that has been such an enormous encouragement to our faith as we have been here.

These two looks so alike to me!

Now that Maddy is in our local nursery (preschool), I am getting connected well to our little community of Ferryhill. Just about everyone walks their child the 15 minutes to and from school each morning, so we get to say hello and chat as we walk or before and after school. We all live right in that small neighborhood and often see one another at the park or the local store. I'm enjoying getting to know the other mums and learning about the Scottish culture ;)

We are thankfully beginning to emerge from the darkness that is the Scottish Winter! The sun rises earlier and sets a bit later and there have been less cloudy days. I am feeling the energy and life course back into my veins again! Praising the Lord for that.

Well, here is the latest Aberdeen Update Tim wrote for our supporters. I thought some of you might light to take a look at it as well.

Saturday, October 20, 2012

On our First Year in Scotland

I can hardly believe that it's been over a YEAR now that we have been living overseas! I was thinking back to the day at the end of September last year when we said good bye to our dear family and friends in the States and took off on a plane headed for Aberdeen, Scotland. We were anxious about the unknown, but excited about the adventures that would await us!

There have been some ups and downs, but God has been gracious and we have been blessed with a wonderful Academic and Church community here. I feel like we are truly settled into life here. Each time we have moved (WI, VA, IL) it always seemed to take about a year to feel FULLY settled. But it is really such a wonderful sense of belonging and I'm feeling very BLESSED!

What we are up to now:

Tim's studies are going well. He is enjoying the time he has to study the comparison of John Owen and Karl Barth on what it means to be "righteous and at the same time a sinner" as a Christian. He's presenting a paper on a portion of his topic at the ETS conference in Milwaukee when we head back to the states in November. I'm so thankful he's able to have this time of study to better prepare for future ministry. God is good!

If you're interested, here is our quarterly update on our time here that Tim wrote.

The girls and I are doing very well. Our weeks consist of Wednesday play group with the other PhD wives, Thursday playgroup/bible study with my church friends, Maddy's Preschool, and other little outings and learning opportunities!

Maddy is thriving in her classroom. She has teachers who are very sweet and yet strict (which is exactly what she needs)! They actually do time outs in school which I totally love. She has several little buddies already that she talks about all the time and is really enjoying her learning and creative time. I'm so happy for her and proud all at the same time! In general, Madison's behavior and maturity have really grown. She is making wiser choices and working to be a good example to her sister. In fact, I'll often hear her say, "Rosie, just follow my leader!" That is not of course to say that she doesn't ever lead her sister astray -haha!

Ever since she started nursery school, she gets down for nap around 12:30 and sleeps soundly for 1.5 hours and then goes to sleep at 7:30pm without a bit of a fuss - sleeping until 7 or 7:30am! I think she's worn out ;) She enjoys crafting with me any moment she gets. Her latest favorite is ripping pieces of construction paper into tiny pieces and gluing the pieces onto a coloring sheet with the appropriate colors desired to make a pretty mosaic. She loves it and it takes a long time which is a plus for me while I'm cooking ;)

Maddy Says:

* Seven Pennies! That means i can buy everything, like popsicles, candy, and treats!!!

* (after she saw a sad lion sculpture, she said, "It's ok if you have tears, you can still love your whole family!"

* (After I asked her if she would like to get her hair cut), " I like my hair, JUST the way it is!"

Rose and I are getting so much 1 on 1 time that I am just thoroughly enjoying. I am seeing her little personality blossom each day! She is quiet around new people and seems timid and shy, but as soon as she is comfortable in an environment she is quirky, silly, smart, loud and fun! I'm treasuring these moments I get with her while Maddy is at preschool. She and I are able to do a puzzle or project without Maddy taking over and doing the whole thing before Rose gets a chance to even do one part. She and I are really bonding in a special way and I really am thankful for it! She is seeming more like a a big girl each day to me. Could it be that she was a BABY when we moved here sucking on a pacifier? She's grown FOUR inches since February! She's talking up a storm these days and I love it!

Rose Says:

* A wash a hands?

* I heavy (something is hard to do, like opening a door ;)

* Is yut (yucky)

* binkerbell (tinker bell)

* I wuv u/ I miss u (she uses these interchangeably ;)

*Where Daddy go? Where Maddy go? Where Mommy go?

* I wan u sing a song a me (sing to me!) - her favorites are Twinkle Twinkle and ABC

* Maddy hit a me!

* 2, 5,10 - here I come, weady or not (playing hide and seek with Maddy)

* Saw doo Maddy! (Sorry Maddy)

She can pretty much explain to us what she needs and wants which of course has lead to some outbursts if she can't get what she wants - RIGHT now! But she is 2 after all ;)

She looks and acts like a full grown toddler/preschooler these days :( Please, someone, anyone - freeze time!

All in all though as I look back at this year with my darling girls, I am thankful for each cuddle, each princess dance, each opportunity to disciple, each book read, each walk taken... God is good - ALL the time!

Julie - hmm - what am I up to? Well, Tuesday nights I am part of a Bible study with the AWF ladies. This has been such a blessing to me spiritually and socially. I'm thankful for a group of ladies to learn and grow with in the area that matters most - our relationship with Christ! I'm also part of a book club. we read a book once a month and then meet to discuss it. Presently I'm reading, My Life in France by Julia Child and I just LOVE it!

I am also one of the leaders in the AWF group who helps to welcome the new families arriving and also plans activities (Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas etc) as well as playgroups, Bible Studies, Book Club, Girl's nights out etc. I am also teaching 5-8 year olds in Sunday school at church and part of the Thursday morning ladies Bible Study at church. I love our church and the wonderful community it provides! We really have been blessed!

And now a look at the last YEAR here {Beware you are about to be flooded with pictures}